Spouse Avoiding Divorce Service

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If a spouse avoids divorce service in Oklahoma, you can use a process server, serve by publication, or request alternate service. Proof of intent to serve doesnt penalize the spouse, but alternate methods can lead to a default judgment. The 20-day response period starts after successful service.

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I told my ex I was filing for divorce and now he is avoiding service, what do I do?
In Oklahoma, if a spouse is avoiding service, you can:
*. Use a process server or sheriff.
*. Serve by publication in a newspaper if he cannot be located.
*. Request a court order for alternate service.
Remember, it's important to follow the rules for service to ensure your divorce process is valid.
If I have proof I told him of my intent to serve and he still is avoiding it, can that count against him?
In Oklahoma, the court generally does not penalize a person for avoiding service. However, if you follow the proper procedures and he still avoids service, the court may allow alternate methods of service. This could potentially lead to a default judgement in your favor.
Do you still have to wait the 20 days for a response if he avoids being served?
In Oklahoma, the *-day response period starts after successful service. If he's avoiding service, the clock doesn't start. You may proceed with alternative service methods, which, upon completion, will start the response time.