Misuse Of Social Security Funds
Summary
Minors can report misuse of Social Security funds to the SSA and request a change in representative payee. Allegations of abuse, including financial, physical, and emotional, can be reported to Child Protective Services (CPS), which is obligated to investigate. Educational neglect can also be reported if a parent fails to facilitate schooling. Evidence such as photos and text messages can support your claims. CPS may place you with a relative if your current environment is unsafe. Coercion and emotional abuse are serious and should be reported. Always prioritize your safety and seek help from CPS, counselors, and legal authorities.Full Conversation
Oh ok thank you yes well my dad has financially abused me he is on my account that my social security checks were going to i was getting about $* a month for awhile and there is only $* i asked him about it and he said that it is his account and that is how we survived this long when he was unemployed
You can report misuse of your funds to the SSA directly. As a minor, you're entitled to:
*. Ask SSA to change your representative payee.
*. Seek legal help from child protection services or a lawyer.
Remember, you'll need evidence of misuse.
*. Ask SSA to change your representative payee.
*. Seek legal help from child protection services or a lawyer.
Remember, you'll need evidence of misuse.
Oh ok if i ask cps for advice and tell them all the allegations I have against my dad will they make a report without asking me? Because i have several allegations against him
Yes, if you report allegations of abuse to Child Protective Services (CPS), they are obligated to investigate even if you don't want them to. It's their duty to ensure your safety and wellbeing.
Oh ok if i ask cps for advice and tell them all the allegations I have against my dad will they make a report without asking me? Because i have several allegations against him
Yes, Child Protective Services (CPS) in California is obliged to investigate allegations of child abuse or neglect. If you share your concerns, they may initiate an investigation. It is important to provide as much information as you can.
Ohh ok thank you very much yeah i have the allegations written down would you like to here them?
Absolutely, I'm here to help you understand your legal rights. Please share the allegations you have written down. Remember, this is a safe space for you to express your concerns.
Past physical abuse,past domestic violence,emotional abuse,financial abuse, emotional neglect,educational neglect,medical neglect,unsanitary living conditions and inappropriate living arrangements, animal abuse,misuse of social security funds
These are serious allegations. In California, you can:
*. Report these to Child Protective Services (CPS).
*. Seek legal assistance from organizations like the National Center for Youth Law.
Remember, you have rights and protections under California law.
*. Report these to Child Protective Services (CPS).
*. Seek legal assistance from organizations like the National Center for Youth Law.
Remember, you have rights and protections under California law.
Thank yku i have pictures to help support those allegations
That's great, having evidence like pictures can be very helpful. Make sure to safely store them and present them when you report your allegations to CPS or any legal authority. It's important to speak up about your situation.
So with the educational neglect my teacher called me today and told me he hasn't seen me in awhile is everything ok? And after that i called my counselor and told her i haven't been to school since May 15th and my dad gets of work at * or * but he still doesn't take me to school and school closes at * she told me i can do everything digitally and i don't even have to go into school but my teacher asked if i can go in school this week i go to independent studies by the way
Your teacher expressing concern is significant. Under California law, parents are responsible for ensuring their children attend school. If you're not attending due to your father's actions, this could be considered educational neglect. Report this to your counselor and CPS.
Yes well i told her that he gets off work while school is still open but he'll probably say that he is to tired to go because he worked all day and she told me that i don't even have to go into school i can do check in's through call
That's good advice from your counselor. You have the right to continue your education. It's important to regularly communicate with your school and CPS regarding your situation. Remember, your wellbeing and education are protected under California law.
Ok thank you so since they can't do anything about him not taking me to school because i don't even need to go into school i can call is that still educational neglect?
If your father is preventing you from attending school or not facilitating your remote learning, it could be considered educational neglect under California law, even if you have the option to learn digitally.
Oh ok thank you i think next time i go into school I'm going to talk to my counselor and tell her about everything and show here the pictures i have and hopefully she will make a cps report i already have a few family members i can stay with but i want to stay with my grandma she has an open room at her house that is mine for when i stay there
That's a good plan. In California, you have the right to:
*. Report abuse to your counselor, who is legally obligated to report it to CPS.
*. Express your preference to stay with your grandma to CPS.
Be sure to present all your evidence.
*. Report abuse to your counselor, who is legally obligated to report it to CPS.
*. Express your preference to stay with your grandma to CPS.
Be sure to present all your evidence.
Ok thank you yes i really want to live with my grandma where i currently live I'm pretty much isolated and have no family out here but with my grandma i have my family who are the most loving,outgoing and supportive people i ever met
That sounds like a positive environment for you. To help ensure your safety and well-being, it's important to express this desire to CPS when you report your situation. They generally prioritize placing children with family members when possible. Are you ready to take these steps?
Yes i am
That's great to hear. Remember, you're not alone in this situation. Reach out to CPS, your counselor, and your school with your evidence and concerns. Your safety, wellbeing, and education are important. Don't hesitate to seek help if you need it.
Ok thank you so much i feel bad because my dad has been so nice to me since i got back from visiting my grandma/family but it wont last for long
It's understandable to have mixed feelings. However, your safety is priority. Remember, you're taking these steps to protect yourself. If you ever feel unsafe or need immediate help, what options do you have?
I have a plan if my dad hits me to call my grandma or a relative to pick me up and then call the police while i wait for them to pick me up
That's a good plan. Remember, in case of physical harm, you can also:
*. Call * immediately.
*. Report the incident to CPS.
*. Discuss this with your counselor.
Stay safe and know your rights. You're doing the right thing.
*. Call * immediately.
*. Report the incident to CPS.
*. Discuss this with your counselor.
Stay safe and know your rights. You're doing the right thing.
Because they all live * hours away from me
That sounds like a good plan. Do you have the necessary numbers and contact information saved for these options? In case of any immediate danger, don't hesitate to call *.
Yes i have their numbers and addresses written down
That's excellent preparation. Just remember, if you're ever in immediate danger, call * first. Stay strong, you're not alone in this.
Thank you he hasn't hit me in about a year but he usually is about to when we argue
It's important to ensure your safety even if physical abuse hasn't occurred recently. The threat of violence is still serious. Have you considered discussing these concerns with your counselor as well?
Yes i have yeah he usually does threaten to hit me
That's a very serious threat. Remember, you have the right to be safe. If you feel threatened, don't hesitate to call * right away. It's also essential to share this information with CPS and your counselor.
Ok i will talk to her about it next time i see her i have old text from my dad saying he'll hit me if i don't clean or finish my homework
Those text messages could serve as crucial evidence. In California, threats of violence can be considered a form of abuse. You should definitely share these with your counselor and CPS when you report your situation.
Ok thank you but they are about 4 years old i don't know if they are relevant
Even if the texts are a few years old, they can still be relevant as they show a history of threats. It's always better to provide as much evidence as possible when reporting the situation to CPS and your counselor.
I will thank you so much hopefully she can report it if not I'll tell her that I'll look into it more
Absolutely, that's a good approach. If you don't see immediate action, don't get discouraged. It's important to persist until you feel safe and heard. Do you have any other concerns or questions?
How long will the investigation take?
The length of a CPS investigation varies based on the complexity of the case and the laws in your state. In California, the law requires CPS to provide a status update within 30 days and complete the investigation within 90 days.
Oh ok do i have to stay with my dad during the investigation or will they temporary place me with a relative since he is prone to hitting me and threatening me?
In California, CPS has the authority to arrange temporary placement with a relative if they deem it necessary for your safety. This could be an immediate step while the investigation is ongoing. You should express your concerns and your preference for staying with your grandma.
Under what circumstances does cps have to place you with a family member?
In California, CPS may place you with a family member if:
*. They believe you're at risk of harm in your current environment.
*. The relative can provide a safe and stable environment.
*. The relative agrees to the placement and passes a background check.
Express your preferred placement to CPS during their investigation.
*. They believe you're at risk of harm in your current environment.
*. The relative can provide a safe and stable environment.
*. The relative agrees to the placement and passes a background check.
Express your preferred placement to CPS during their investigation.
What is a background check?
A background check is a process used by organizations or authorities to verify that an individual is who they claim to be. This can include checking:
*. Criminal records
*. Credit history
*. Work history
*. Educational records
*. Personal references
It helps ensure the individual's reliability, trustworthiness, and safety.
*. Criminal records
*. Credit history
*. Work history
*. Educational records
*. Personal references
It helps ensure the individual's reliability, trustworthiness, and safety.
Oh ok my grandma has been arrested before but it wasn't for anything dangerous it was for something stupid
If your grandma was arrested, it might come up during the background check. However, not all arrests prevent someone from becoming a caretaker. Can you tell me more about the situation? This will help me give you a better understanding of how it might impact CPS's decision.
I don't know what she was arrested for she said it was something stupid that she can laugh about now she said she'll tell me next time i go over
It's important to note that not all arrests may affect the decision of CPS. The nature of her crime, time passed since the arrest, and her current situation would be considered. Be honest about this with CPS.
Ok i will i know my dad has been to jail too i don't know what for though based on his past probably a fight drug possession or stealing
It's important to share all this information with CPS during their investigation. They will take into account all aspects to ensure your safety. Do you have any other questions or concerns?
No i don't think so thank you for everything though i will reach out if i have any more questions or concerns
You're welcome! Please don't hesitate to reach out if you have any other questions or concerns in the future. Remember, it's important to keep yourself safe. You're not alone in this situation.
Oh i have a quick question what is it called when someone manipulates you into doing something they know you are uncomfortable with?
This is referred to as "coercion." Coercion involves the use of force or intimidation to obtain compliance or manipulate someone into doing something they do not want to do. It is considered a form of abuse in many legal contexts.
Oh ok thank you i was wondering what it was called i forgot i was telling my grandma about it because my dad makes me massage his legs because they hurt but i don't like it it makes me uncomfortable if i don't want to he'll get upset and yell at me kr guilt trip me
This could be considered a form of coercion or emotional abuse. In California, forcing a child to engage in uncomfortable actions can be seen as abusive. You have the right to refuse and report such behavior to CPS.
I haven't told him that it makes me uncomfortable but he knows i don't like it
Even if you haven't explicitly told him, coercion doesn't require overt refusal. If you're uncomfortable, it's important to share this with CPS and your counselor. Do you feel ready to discuss this issue as part of your report?
Yes i do
That's great to hear. Remember, your feelings are valid, and it's important to report any situation that makes you uncomfortable. I'm here if you have any other questions. Can I assist you with anything else?
No thanks thank you for everything again
You're welcome! Remember, you're doing the right thing by seeking help. Don't hesitate to reach out if you have more questions or concerns in the future. Stay strong!