Narcissistic Ex Employer Legal Issues

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Your situation involves multiple jurisdictions and complex legal issues. In Macau, employers must pay for overtime work under Law No. 6/2008. Defamation is a crime under Law No. 2/99/M. In Manila, the Violence Against Women and Their Children Act protects against psychological abuse. Reporting to local authorities if you feel threatened is advisable. For IRS matters, updates about the status of the person being reported are generally not required. Submitting forms to the IRS is free, but consultation fees on Lawyer.Com vary. Always consult with a legal professional for personalized advice.

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I have a narc ex-employer who is blaming me for what he claims to be the downfall of his family. His wife and children ran away from him because of the abuse they endured. I didn't even know they had plans to run away. I just happened to live with them at the time.
Hello ****, I'm sorry to hear about your situation. To provide you with relevant legal information, could you tell me in which country or state you are located?
I am a Macau resident but a Filipino citizen. My narc ex-boss is American but lives in between Bangkok and Manila. His wife and children are in Manila and theyre Filipino
Hello ****, thank you for sharing your situation. This is indeed a complex issue due to the multiple jurisdictions involved.
Here are some general points to consider:
- If you feel threatened, consider reporting to local authorities.
- In Manila, the Violence Against Women and Their Children Act protects against psychological abuse.
- In Macau, Law No. */*/M, Title II, Chapter II, Article *, states that defamation is a crime.
Be aware, I'm not a lawyer, but this might guide you in the right direction. Please consult with a legal professional in your location.
I understand. But here's the thing, my ex boss got a hold of his wife's devices but she recently tried to off herself because she's faced with the decision of needing to move back with him because she had financial issues and can't support herself and her daughters anymore. In my personal messages with her, we would trash talk about him. Even in my messages in the company's Microsoft Teams and he has accessed all that data. BUT I have proof of his verbal abuse towards me via email. as well as exploiting me by making me work mondays to saturdays, including public holidays for *-* hours. with no OT, or any other required benefits even after sending me to multiple countries but my contract states that ill be based in Macau. No insurance or anything and all i got was my basic pay.
This is indeed a complex situation. From a legal perspective, consider the following:
- In Macau, under Law No. */*, employers are obliged to pay extra for overtime work.
- Invasion of privacy can be a serious offense.
- You might want to consult with an employment and privacy law professional in Macau to explore your options.
Remember, I'm not a lawyer but I hope this information helps.
I have another question.
Of course, ****. Feel free to ask your question. I'm here to help with providing legal information to the best of my ability.
When his wife was still well. We reported him to the IRS for tax evasion with proof. We also stated in our report to the IRS that we are willing to cooperate if they require more information from our end. Since the unfortunate event that happened to his wife, and he has her devices. He most likely knows that we have reported him. Im thinking if I should update the IRS that he is already aware that we reported him.
The IRS generally doesn't require updates about the status of the person being reported. However, if you feel it's necessary, you can contact them. It's also important to maintain your personal safety. Consult with a professional regarding your situation.
im trying to fill up their form on their website, is it free?
Yes, ****. Typically, submitting forms or reports to the IRS through their official website is free of charge. However, please make sure you're on the correct website to avoid scams.
no, i meant lawyer.com
Consultation fees can vary on lawyer.com. Some lawyers offer free initial consultations while others may charge. It's best to clarify this with the specific lawyer you're considering.
just free connections and not consultations?
On Lawyer.com, you can connect with lawyers for free. However, whether a consultation is free or not depends on the individual lawyer's policies. It's best to clarify this directly with them.