Child Custody Decision Factors

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In Minnesota, a childs preference in custody matters is considered but not the sole factor. Courts also evaluate parental care, child-parent relationships, and overall wellbeing. If a parent is emotionally volatile, communicate concerns to the other parent and their attorney. In cases of immediate danger, contact Child Protective Services.

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My parents are getting a divorce, and I am *. Can I decide which parent’s house I spend my time, regardless of official custody agreements?
Hello ****,
In Minnesota, a child's preference is considered in custody matters, but it's not the sole factor. A court will also consider other factors like each parent's ability to provide care, the child's relationship with both parents, and the child's wellbeing. It's best to discuss this with your parents and their attorneys.
My mom is emotionally volatile in a way that borders on abusive. My dad is a competent parent and I prefer to be with him. Who should I talk to about making sure my time with him is not revoked?
Hello ****, you should communicate your concerns and preference to your dad, and he can share this with his attorney. They can present this information in court. It may also be beneficial to speak with a qualified counselor or therapist about your experiences.
Okay, thank you.
Hello ****,
Your situation is indeed sensitive. If the situation worsens or you feel in immediate danger, contact Child Protective Services in Minnesota at *-*-*-*. Also, consider discussing this with a school counselor or trusted adult. Stay strong, help is available.